Category: personal development
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Hurt People Don’t Hurt People – Assholes Do
I was sitting in a room filled with ‘healers’, one of which had verbally assaulted me a month or so previous. I wasn’t super comfortable being there, but a friend offered me a seat next to her, the furthest point away from my offender. I was managing my anxiety well and taking my power back…
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Comparison Addiction
Soooooo much judgement going on. I hear it all around me. There’s so much of other’s lives you cannot be aware of, yet you spend your time comparing your life to one another’s. You compare 100% of your life to the .5% of someone else’s life that you are able to see. And truly you…
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The Brave Woman
She didn’t skip a beat As she stifled her tears Stuffing her feelings down her throat Past her heart, into her corseted colon. Walking forward as though She was just fine. So, they called her brave.
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Asking For Help Isn’t Weakness
Something I hear a lot of Foul Mouthed Women say is some variation of ‘it’s hard for me to ask for help’. Is this you? It was me, too. And I raised my daughter in that. I learned it from my mother, so it is definitely something generational. That means we can stop passing it…
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Stepping Into Shamanism
I have struggled on my spiritual path for more than a minute. History In the beginning, I was a devout Catholic. As my brain developed through young adulthood and I began to see the incongruences, I explored alternate religions. I studied, to a greater or lesser degree, non-denominational Christianity, Taoism, Buddhism, Hindu, Muslim, Paganism, Wicca…
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F.U.C.K. Yourself
I was sitting with a new friend who was discussing her current lack of partnership when she said something to the effect of, ‘I need a good fuck’, to which I replied, “then Fuck yourself!” The words were out of my mouth before I thought about it. Isn’t that how Spirit works? What I thought…
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Books
Many of you have suggested I write a book. In 2014, I published my first book, Strongest In Our Broken Places – A Healing How To Book But that’s not what you are asking for now. I have collected a few of my death, dying and grief poems and published it in an ebook. It’s…